Denny Talks!
Sun., Nov. 16, 2008 5:31 PM PST by Denny StarrHey, everybody, it's Denny.
Before I get started, I wanted to thank all of you first for showing Ruby so much love and support. I know it means the world to her, and it means a lot to me too.
I met Ruby when I was in college. She came to visit Jeff, and she and I hung out all weekend. When she left, my stomach was sore from laughing for two days straight! We had so much fun! We didn't really stay in touch, but later, when I was at a recording arts workshop in Ohio for some reason that I can't remember, I called her. She didn't answer (go figure)...but there was a song on her answering machine that I used to love called "How Do You Talk to an Angel." I was about to find out.
She called me back, and after that we talked all the time. She told me she had a dream to lose all of her weight. I thought that was incredible and tried to help her as much as I could from a distance. I was traveling with a band and decided to part ways with my good friends Neal and Jay, and Ruby and I moved to Los Angeles. We spent eight years there and made enough memories to last a lifetime! We had our ups and downs, but we always had a great time. There was always safety in Ruby. She is everything you see on this show and more!
However, I later felt like I had to leave. For the record, I didn't leave her for another girl. I had my own selfish reasons, but I also truly believed that Ruby and I had gotten into a comfort zone that was never going to allow her to finish. I thought maybe if I left it would push her to do so. I moved to Myrtle Beach, and she moved back to Savannah. She started gaining weight. I never knew how much I hurt her, but in spite of that, times when I needed Ruby she was always there.
Now I believe Ruby is finally on track to finish this thing, and yes I am back. I intend to do everything I can to help her. But what I believe is going to be the biggest difference is all of your support. Before this show started I wrote a song for her, and part of it says:
"Now it's time to be the one in front
Let everybody see, just how much you love
And let the love that they send back to you
Be the hand you hold as you make this dream come true."
Thank you guys for showing up and being that hand for her to hold.
And by the way, you can all relax. I don't think I'm going to get Ruby back...I don't think it because I know it. :)
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Now loading...Shannon Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 5:45 PM
1. Hi all, My name is Shannon and I work for Denny at his gym in Myrtle Beach. I am so glad that "Style" has chosen to do a show on Ruby. I can not even imagine how many peoples lives she is changing everyday. I cant wait to see Ruby change her own life and live the * dreams" she speaks of. I want to say that I hate that they are making Denny out to be a bad guy. He is a good person that cares deeply for people. I hope that the show will show the best part of him and how he is only Ruby's biggest fan. Cant wait till next Sunday.
Pam Clark Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 5:49 PM
2. Hey guy, I must confess that I was very angry to see you on the show. The LAST thing RUBY needs is someone that puts her PHYSICAL APPEARANCE FIRST. Of course we all want to help Ruby slim down, but only through Love and Support. She must LOVE herslelf and shed the pounds for herself..NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT HER TO SLIM DOWN. I am SO PROUD of OUR RUBY...Thank goodness she made the RIGHT Decision...Now I will continue to watch the show. pammie sue
Jessa Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 5:52 PM
3. Don't worry Denny we don't hate you!! Only you and Ruby understand the complexities of your relationship. Not that the opinion of a stranger matters, but I am glad that you are back in her life to support her....And take her for rides on your Harley! Nothing makes a southern girl feel better than a Harley's roar, fresh air and great fellowship!
alicia caple Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 5:55 PM
4. Dear Denny, I hope that you learn something from this. I think the reason Ruby gain more of her weight was because you broke her heart. You can't expect someone to lose weight after your broke their heart. I hope you learn that you love someone for who they are, not because they are skinny, or they look like a model or whatever reason. Ruby deserve somone that loves her for her. I think you missed that chance her. I hope that when you met a girl, you don't that tell that girl, I love you more, if you lose weight. Don't ever tell a woman that. It sound like as never you love her in the first place. I'm not trying dog you or anything, I just hope when you met a girl, you love that girl and all her flaws.
cutter73 Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 5:57 PM
5. Denny, I'll give you props for manning up and saying you're back for the greater good. And knowing that you won't get her "back". The worst of the worst was saying if she were thin the two of you would probably be married. That's like cutting her at the knees. When she reaches her goal, HER GOAL, not yours, it will be because of her and not ever FOR you. My sister married a man, because she thought they were in love and then over night he was not anymore. The reason "she repulsed him". And he was one who said, "I love you for you..." WORDS HURT, and I don't think a lot of people understand how much. THINK before you speak. Good luck!
teresa * Savannah, GA. Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:03 PM
6. Denny, I really hope that you are sincere about wanting to help Ruby. She really is a beautiful person. The most important thing is that she needs to learn to love herself before she can love someone else. I hope that one day she will find that someone that can love her for herself.
donno Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:04 PM
7. Denny, Look yourself in the eye and admit the only reason you came back around Ruby is for your own gain. You want your 15 minutes of fame. Be thankful she gave it to you, your time is up so you can crawl back under your rock. For someone to do * treat another person like the way you've treated Ruby, you must have to look up to see the ground.
Doreena Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:05 PM
8. I was outraged to hear Denny say that he would have married/will marry Ruby IF SHE LOST WEIGHT. If he truly loved her, he would have married her no matter what size she is/was. Denny, you basically told Ruby on tonight's episode 11/16, "I will only be with you if you fit the mold I want you to be? * It's like you told Ruby she was not good enough for you the way she was/is. Denny you apologized to Ruby for hurting her by leaving her for another woman. Then you have the nerve to come on her website and say that's not how it happened? You were an equal part to your relationship with Ruby years ago. If you didn't like the way the relationship was going, as you claim it was becoming too "comfortable", why didn't you stand up and BE A MAN and talk it through, work it out, instead of being a coward and abandoning the woman you claim you loved/love? I am VERY proud of Ruby for standing up for herself and putting RUBY first *** She deserves better than you. Let her do this on her own!!!!!
Vicki Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:11 PM
9. I tend to agree with other comments that you were there for the 15 min. of fame. What I fail to understand is why were you cooking her something she wasn't suppose to eat, as soon as you got in? Do Ruby a favor, bow out, wish her luck, and be on your way.
Lori Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:11 PM
10. Coming froma girl who has been a yo-yo dieter all her life, I can truly empathize with Ruby, my 6 yr old daughter is intrigued too and watches the program with me. Denny,my guess is that deep inside you love Ruby, but you can't base loving someone by putting a physical condition on it. My husband loves me and although he would love me to lose weight too, he doesn't stop loving me for me and he is proud that I am his wife. He wants me to lose weight for me, not for him. You appear very shallow to want to marry Ruby once she slims down to what you want her to be. She's a beautiful girl, period. This episode reminded me of a time in my life when not one guy from high school would look at me when I was heavy. Then years later after I lost weight * I ran into these same guys and now they wanted to talk to me and go out with me. I thought screw you, you didn't have anything to do with me before and you certainly won't now. I'm still the same person, yet you couldn't see through that.
Mo Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:12 PM
11. Ok, Denny, it took a lot of balls for you to go on the show. But was it for Ruby? Or for YOU? You might say that you love Ruby, but do you??? I think you THINK you love Ruby. But I believe it's the person Ruby is about to become weight wise that you THINK you are in love with. You kept saying that IF she lost the weight, you PROBABLY would have married her. So you think that when she does it this time, and I KNOW SHE WILL this time, she will marry you???? Boy you think alot of your self don't you? SIX YEARS!!! SIX YEARS AND NOTHING. Then WHAM!!! Ruby starts to lose weight and you happen to pop back into her life. Hmmmmm something smells wrong here, and I don't mean those peppers you were cooking either. Ruby made this choice without you and I hope and believe she will continue to do this WITHOUT you too. She has friends whom she can count on, and it's obvious to me, you are not one of them.
wakela Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:14 PM
12. Denny, I hope you realize that what goes around comes around. One of these days you are going to find someone who is really thin like you want. You will end up marrying that person. Then when you least expect it, they will put on some weight. What will you do then? Give that person an ultimatum too? Will you get a divorce based solely on weight? The only person who would make comment about marrying someone if they lost weight is a shallow person. Face the fact, you only came on the show now because you are hoping that it will give you business for your gym in Myrtle Beach. Hopefully, after people see this show, they will know what kind of person you really are.
Stephanie Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:15 PM
13. t's almost impossible for someone who has never battled a food addiction to understand how complex it truly is. How it beats you down and takes your confidence and self esteem with it. We already don't feel like we are good enough and our self worth is almost non existant... so the last thing someone in this situation needs to hear is that you will only stay with them if they lose the weight. What someone in this situation needs to know is that you love them now and that you'll love them unconditionally, regardless of the number on the scale. That doesn't mean that you enable them to continue to eat their way to an early death. Someone with an eating disorder needs support and sometimes tough love... but they certainly don't need ultimatums because all that tells them is that they are once again not good enough. Support her, encourage her, cheer her on, and most importantly love her for the beautiful person that she is. If you truly love her, you will do that for her.
Mare3053 Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:20 PM
14. It was with extreme nausea that I read your last remark of your post....... * don't think I'm going to get Ruby back...I don't think it because I know it. *** I drew from your appearance on the show and from that remark your extreme arrogance. I agree with a prior post that you decided to re-appear in Rubys' life for your own personal gain/15 minutes of fame. Its also a good bet that you have control issues too. Most men that decide to play games with a woman of sizes' heart do. I am sure that Ruby is an intelligent woman( like most of us that share the same problem) however, some of us have self-esteem/ confidence issues. It is men like you that prey on that. Hopefully Ruby sticks to her guns and finds herself then once she does, she finds someone who will respect, care and love her for herself and not give altimatums.
Darlene Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:25 PM
15. Denny, please go back to Myrtle Beach * Give her the chance to do this on her own. I have a Denny in my life and I look for the courage every day to tell him to hit the road. I admire Ruby for doing just that. She has such a long, hard journey ahead of her and she has wonderful, caring family friends who are going to hold her hand through the entire trip. You got your fifteen minutes of fame, and you owe it all to Ruby. She has now given you more than you deserve. You are not good for her or any woman with a struggle. You are only good for Denny. Think about it.
Elizabeth Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:28 PM
16. Sorry kids, Denny is a ***** no other way of saying it. If you love someone and want to be with someone, you will no matter what their weight. Let him go. His not worth your time or your thoughts. A real man will love you no matter what size you wear.
Hope Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:33 PM
17. I have one thing to say. If you really loved Ruby you would never have told her that if she lost weight you would marry her. You would have married her reguardless. On the show when you said "You are a beautiful person on the outside, now let's work on the outside", that was hurtful! I know she told you it was sweet, but I have a feeling deep inside it hurt her. You saying that was just as bad as those guys making fun of her. I don't doubt you're a good guy. I just don't think Ruby needs you.
Valerie Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:38 PM
18. I AM SO ASHAMED OF YOU DENNY, YOU DIDNT COME BACK FOR RUBY, YOU CAME BACK AFTER FINDING OUT HER REALITY SHOW AND TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD, SIR YOU JUST DONT LEAVE SOMEONE FOR 6YRS, THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN RETURN LIKE IT WAS JUST YESTERDAY, LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING RUBY IS A TRUE WOMAN * YOU ONLY WANTED AMERICA TO SEE YOU,PERHAPS IT WAS A BUISNESS VENTURE FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU WORK WITH AT THE GYM, I CAN SEE WHY SHE POSTED HER COMMENT HERE 1ST. RUBY WILL GET THRU ALL OF THIS * SO GET TO STEPPING HOME BOY. AND BY THE WAY YOU SAW HER HER GIRLS REACTED TO YOUR VISIT. ALSO YOU WAS THERE TRYING TO ENABLED HER, IN THE KITCHEN COOKING. SO BABYBOY YOUR TIME IS UP, WE LOVE RUBY ******
linda Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:38 PM
19. Denny,Ruby needs someone to Love her for herself!
me Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:42 PM
20. denny, only you know the level of friendship that you and Ruby have. i think it is great that you are there to support her.
Cami Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 6:54 PM
21. Denny, You need to GO. Just the fact that you made peppers for Ruby AND THEN PUT IT IN HER MOUTH, shows the true you. Leave her alone. She lost 50 pounds without you and can only do it without you. If she could do it with you there, she would have. For Ruby....Say good-bye, Denny.
Bethany Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 7:00 PM
22. I'm not the first to say this, but I have to agree....you're a trainer, you own a gym, and the beautiful girl you dumped because you couldn't get past her weight is now famous and has a reality show and you want to come back "so you can help her in the way you think you know best." Can't help but feel that your true motive is to weasel your way back into Ruby's life, put her on your diet and exercise plan, she gets fit and even more fabulous and "PRESTO!" you're gym is famous, you're famous, and you take the glory for her success. What a loser. I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt until you opened your mouth again and reiterated that you could only truly love her and marry her if she lost the weight. I've dated men like you, and I've put them in my past where they belong. Thank GOD Ruby was strong enough to kick you back to the curb and move on. What kind of man tries to use a friend for such a selfish reason? Shame on you. Go back to your gym.
A.J. Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 7:00 PM
23. You negative writers got Denny all wrong. He's great guy, who cares about people, their fitness, and their health. He could care less about 15 minutes of fame. He's already famous to his friends and fans from LA to Myrtle Beach. He cares deeply about Ruby and to know him is to love him. Give the guy a break, if you cant put yourself in his shoes, then don't judge him.
Cami Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 7:07 PM
24. AJ, Clear the fog off your glasses. He disappeared for 6 years. No need to comment any further. Actions speak louder than words....
Mare3053 Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 7:23 PM
25. ok I'm laughing here....... Fans? he has Fans? He disappeared for 6 years. If he truly loved Ruby or cared for her, was a truly genuine friend, he would not have taken off he would have been there no matter what. If he truly "cares about people,their fitness, and their health", he would stick around to "care" so that statement is contradictory to his actions. Camis' post hit the nail on the head "actions speak louder than words."
Kelly Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 7:31 PM
26. I'd like to say to those of you who don't know Denny you'd be surprised at the kind of guy he is. I've known him a couple years thru his gym and know what a nice guy he is. He didn't say anything hurtful or mean to Ruby, he was honest, how many times do women argue that they want someone to be honest with them? Had you rather Denny lie? We all know that physical attraction is important, why should Denny's relationship be any different ?He owns a fitness studio so shouldn't being fit and healthy be important to him? Denny has helped Ruby in the past and let's hope he can help her get down to her lowest weight AGAIN. I don't know Ruby but I do know that she'd have to be a great woman in order for her to be a friend of Denny's. It says a lot about their friendship to get back in touch with one another. Denny isn't looking for 15 minutes of fame, he's been on HGTV, fitness magazines & worked with Billy Blanks while living in LA. If he wanted fame he would NOT be in Myrtle Beach.
Lynne Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:17 PM
27. Denny, I have to say that tonight's television experience was quite an adventure. I have met a lot of putz' in my life (and believe me I can recognize you from a mile away) but you take the cake. I have known Ruby for a long time, probably longer than you. Tonight you proved that although you can be with someone for many years that doesn't mean you know who they are. You don't have a clue who Ruby is. You can't possibly say you know her and love her and base everything on the physical. Like I said, I've known Ruby for years and when I see her I don't see an overweight woman. I see a beautiful soul full of love for God and others. She is truly an angel on earth. I am so happy for her that she didn't stay with you and won't take you back. You would extinquish her fire just for the sake of trying to make yours shine brighter. Just know that what goes around comes around and fate's a nasty b****.
A fan Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:30 PM
28. Denny, you are scum. Your arrogance is astounding. I hope Ruby doesn't fall for your controlling, manipulative crap.
diva Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:37 PM
29. Denny, You are just using Ruby to try to get your "5" minutes of fame. It's not about you!!!!
bbwcandylicious Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:38 PM
30. hey denny stay her friend from a distance,u need to stay away and quit playin with her heart because when i listened to what u told her it made me so disgusted,as a big woman myself,if a guy told me i have to fix my outside to be with him then im out!!
Cacao Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:44 PM
31. Denny, I have had expereinces with people that unfortunately did not have my best interests at heart. You reminded me of that pain I felt upon your arrival. Ruby needs the man that loves her in all of her glory. Her best, her worst. You have spoken clearly that you are merely looking for Ruby to be your personal cheerleader, because "nobody loved you the way she did". I will pray that Ruby takes heed to her better reasoning, not her emotions in this matter. I will pray that she will find strength she never before knew in order to escape the inevitable pain that you will inflict upon her. I wish there were more people in this world like her. She deserves to have someone want to love her completely, not offer marriage as the dangling carrot. You have a great deal to learn and I hope that you take this opportunity to do just that. Learn that that health is a combination of mental, spiritual and physical. When you can excercise that type of personal mastery, then maybe you can win.
Jessica Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:44 PM
32. Denny you are a squirell just trying to get a nut!!! Ruby is the best thing that ever happened to you! You through it away because of vanity .Her heart is pure and kind shame on you for trying to latch on to her new found happiness and fortune.Your 15 minutes of fame are over leave Ruby alone she is to good for you!
Megan Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:47 PM
33. What will be, WILL be. This is up to Ruby & only Ruby! DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU, RUBY!
Kathryn Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:49 PM
34. as much as i absolutely adore ruby, i am a complete workout fanatic and i understand where denny is coming from. the physical is important to me, too. i know ruby is going to get there, and i hope (if it's what they both want) that it works out. they both seem like such great people and they definitely have an undeniable bond!
Possible... Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:51 PM
35. OK people...I hear all of you and I understand where you are coming from, however, it's possible to love someone and not love everything about them. Isn't it possible Denny wanted her to lose the weight so he wouldn't have to worry about a wife dying at an early age or a wife who miscarries time and time again b/c of ample weight, etc? And, come on, you've all seen the shows where people get picked on, teased, etc and they turn their lives around (most times for revenge or maybe b/c it was true), this could've been his reason for leaving. I think he loves her very much and since hearing "life or death" he is back to help her and get that love back. Whatever his reasons, I hope Ruby succeeds with or without him. Good luck Ruby!!
Cesar Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:55 PM
36. Denny, you are hot dude!. I hope to see more of you next Sunday. I can totally see myself in you. I too dated a woman that I loved very much and was overweight. I didnt leave her because she was fat, I left her because we didnt have the same interests. I was active and she was inactive. Nowadays, I'm up in my age and I remain active and would only consider someone who wants to enjoy my interests.
Sue Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 8:56 PM
37. I can't help thinking that you are using Ruby. Why come back now when she is on the road to getting healthy. You just want to promote yourself. If you truly care about her, don't cook her "peppers" when she is not suposed to eat them. You are not her trainer, doctor, or as far as I can tell her friend. Leave her alone and let her be herself!! We all saw you now go away.
Native Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:02 PM
38. I can't say I am thrilled with everything Denny had to say to Ruby, but I do think he has good intentions and only wants to see Ruby become healthier * MIND, BODY and SOUL. He obviously takes care of himself and wants the same for her. He could be a great motivator for Ruby. I personally think Ruby is an incredible woman * smart, fun and beautiful. Yes, she is beautiful...in spite of her weight. In Denny's profession, he knows all too well that someone like Ruby who loses an incredible amount of weight isn't exactly a sight of beauty in the bedroom after the weight loss. Because she has yo-yo dieted and is getting older, she will most likely require a lot of surgery to remove excess sagging skin. Denny knows it, and I think he accepts that. He just wants to see her healthier * for her sake. He's not expecting a centerfold. He is in for the long haul. He loves her. If Ruby feels good about him being in her life, and he doesn't negatively impact her progress, stay off his back.
Amber Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:02 PM
39. Denny- Everyone seems to think that you are such a bad person for what you said to Ruby. I want to put my 2 cents in and say that you need to do what is going to make YOU happy. Dont get me wrong i think we have all fell in love with Ruby but at this point in her life i think she needs more of a friend then a partner anyways! It is VERY obvious how much you care for her and i think you want to see her achieve her goals as bad as everyone else does..If not more!!! I want everyone to think about this... If he was SUCH a bad person as the show suggest then would you put yourself in his shoes?? Ruby is 700 lbs and he is a very handsom slender guy!!! I know it is not easy being seen in public with her... Society is hard on someone who is that over weight. But yet he loves and cares for her enough that not only will he be like "ya i am with her" but he will go and stand up for her when others are out to hurt her!!! Denny i think you are wonderful!!
marsha Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:07 PM
40. Well first of all, who wouldn't love Ruby! She is such a vibrant personality and I think a very very pretty girl, just full of life. She has certainly encouraged me to make my diet healthier and loose some weight. I enjoyed watching her with Denny, and I think they have a special love between them. You do not spend 10 years with someone and not feel something for them. I am glad that Ruby took her stand with Denny but I couldn't help liking him and watching them together. Call me a romantic. Thank you Ruby, this is a wonderful way to help yourself and everyone else. I love the show, keep up the good work and I do hope we get to see you fall in love with the man of your dreams. You need to make your own decisions as to whether Denny will be "a friend" in your life.
Jackie Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:09 PM
41. I'm sorry, what Denny said was hurtful and Ruby deserves better. He should have said "I'm sorry, I'm shallow and can't get beyond your weight. I have a problem" I have a wonderful husband who met me and MARRIED me when I was 295 pounds. He loves me for who I am. AND our relationship is great in EVERY way (including physical that you very much!) We have two beautiful boys. Ruby will find someone who loves her for HER. I for one hopes she meets him while she is still overweight!!!! That way she knows he loves her for HER and she won't worry that if she gains weight (even a little) that he will leave her.
Tamie Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:15 PM
42. Den, I have known you for longer than any of these people including Ruby and I know for a fact you are not out to hurt anyone. You love with your whole heart and are a truly great person. I am sure Ruby knows this as well. I remember talking to you when Ruby lived with you in California and how excited you were about working with her to lose the weight. I remember you saying I would love her and after watching the show I do. I really hope she can lose the weight and live healthy. You are an inspiration and I think these people that are saying hateful things should wake up and realize this is a reality show with alot of editing. They may not be getting the whole picture. P.S. I really don't like the idea of you riding on that harley, it is dangerous. Love and miss you, Tamie
Cheryl Johnson Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:17 PM
43. Denny I was disappointed in the way you were with Ruby, the thing about the way it had to be.I can see why you love her she is amazing.
Kelly Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:20 PM
44. Denny, I agree with some of the other posters on some things but for the most part, the reactions from women are mostly predictable and it makes good tv. You are a male and this behavior is typical and I believe you cannot blame someone for behaviors that seem natural and truthful to them. Whatever your reasons for your appearance on the show; personal, professional, or true compassion for Ruby, it seems like all parties could potentially benefit from positive emotional support.
Miss D Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:21 PM
45. I think it's just sad the manner Denny has come back into Ruby's life after 6 long years. Would he have looked her up if she had not been on T.V.? The same thing happened to me and my ex tried to come back to me after I lost 100 lbs. No thanks. My ex wasn't in it for his 15 minutes of fame-although he tried his best to get his 15 minutes of fun-if you get my drift. Ruby, when you said you wanted someone to love you for you my heart broke. You're beautiful! Inside and out. Ruby, please lean on yourself, friends, doctors, your fans and God to get you through this difficult journey. They'll be with you when you meet your goal and your show is done. Unfortunately, I think Denny will not.
Miss D Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:27 PM
46. I know people are acting like Denny is looking like a jerk because of editing of a reality show. But, come on! He DID say he would have married her IF she were thin. I'm sure the Style network didn't edit those words together. That's not editing! That's him being a jerk!
miisvegas Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:34 PM
47. Only an observation from a thirty minute edited episode *** Take with it what you will. Denny, after seeing your interaction with Ruby *** I believe you loved her at one time and may have love for her now. However, I wonder if some of that emotion is due to the realization that "no one" has ever loved you like Ruby has loved you? That non-judgemental, UNCONDITIONAL, hard-to-find love! *spark* And all from a woman you could not love unconditionally? As Ruby has emotional reasons behind her weight, you Denny may have emotional issues behind your "physical expectations." I too hope you seek your answers, the way Ruby has. But, there is a saying *** "your past didn't make it to your present for a reason, so when they reappear *** understand they can only foul-up your future." From personal experience, nine times out of ten this statement is true. However, if Ruby's future hold's a place in it for you, friends or more *** then I wish the both of you the best. "GO RUBY *** I HAVE FAITH!"
dorothea Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 9:51 PM
48. Denny I think you are a really good person and I also think you and Ruby can be old friends.Ruby needs to fall in love and explore her whole being with her self * Her new and old friends need to let her know she is the only RUBY on earth. She needs to be the best RUBY she can be. Be the wind beneath her wings Dorothea
Kathy Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 10:06 PM
49. Ruby, I think you are beautiful inside and out and many hurrahs for you that you kicked Denny to the curb. Keep up the good work, girl. You are inspirational to all of us overweight people. Good luck to you and I'll continue to watch your successes.
Jackie Sun, Nov 16, 2008, 10:26 PM
50. I am speechless!! First off because I am a local of the Myrtle Beach area, and I KNOW OF Denny Starr and have always thought he was the kind of guy that would only date the "skinny model" types. After seeing him on the show and knowing that he's dated a plus size gal has changed my judgement about him. (I don't like calling ourselves big girls or fat) I think Denny really did try to help her, only reason why I say this is when I got see my doctor there are signs in the office for gym classes that are VERY CHEAP. As most of you know going to a gym can be costly. I am not sure if he still owns the gym anymore. Since I no longer work in the area where his gym is located. But I don't think you should knock him, think about it... how many guys of his size would even think about dating a plus size gal like us? They both said they were in their comfort zones when they were together, and we all know to well what it's like when we get in our "zones" nothing will change. GOOD JOB RUBY!!