Ruby's Thoughts on Faith
Sun., Dec. 14, 2008 5:45 PM PST by Ruby Gettinger
Tonight's episode was about disappointment, and struggling and wanting to believe and trust in someone and finding the faith to believe in yourself. It's about finding the faith to believe there is something bigger out there than all of us.
My personal belief is that there is a God. I truly believe in God. In my young-adult life, I went out searching for the truth. I didn't want to believe in God just because my mom believed, and I didn't want to love God just because my family and friends loved Him. I felt I was not being honest. So, I wanted to make sure I believed and loved Him with all of my heart, soul and mind. The Word says, "When you search for Me with all your heart, soul and mind, then you will find Me." [Deuteronomy 4:29] And that's exactly what happened.
I receive a lot of emails asking about my religion and religious people. I agree that some are way too judgmental! I think sometimes when some people get religious, they use it as a platform to judge others and point their finger, when that finger needs to do a U-turn right back at them.
Personally, for me, I believe in God and the Bible. I am disturbed because some people make God look so bad when they judge people so harshly. My God says, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" [Matthew 7:1-3]
"Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these." [John 13:34-35] I would never want someone to judge and condemn me. Would you? We have no idea what another person is going through or what brought them to their today; we have never traveled down their road. People would look at me and call me a gluttoner. When the truth is, I am not.
We are all unique human beings who grew up with parents, without parents, single parents, siblings, teachers, etc. Every one of these people put their mark on us. Good or bad! Now it's time to put our mark on ourselves. It's time to believe in ourselves, even if we can't find one other person who will. You be that person who believes in you. Find the strength. Dig deep inside and find what all of us have: the will to survive. It's in all of us!
Remember your passion and climb your mountain until you reach the top. Fight your beast during the entire climb, and when you can't fight from exhaustion...sit, rest and wait and then climb again.
God is for us! We can beat this, we will beat this, we all will stand together and beat this.
Imagine what it will feel like when you climb the top of your mountain. When I reach my goal, I want to go to the highest mountain and yell, "I did it! I really did it! Oh my gosh! I did it!" and then to look at you and FINALLY be able to say, and know, "YOU CAN DO IT!!!!" Imagine the feeling of climbing the biggest mountain and at the top of your mountain is FREEDOM!!!!
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Now loading...Terry Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 6:07 PM
1. Ruby, I adore you. I cannot wait to watch your show from week to week. I am pulling for you and fighting for you inside. Your personality is so awesome. You glow. You are the most real person I know (from the tv world) I am going through a rough time right now. I lost my mother less than a year ago and so my world is rough and tough. Watching your show insipires me to be a better person. I would love to meet you in person. Your family and friends are as awesome as you are. I am rooting for you. I am on your side. I do not have a weight issue but I have an emotional issue and that is what draws me to you. I hope your finde your emotional issue and can deal with all that. Please allow me to meet you. Terry *** St. Louis, MO ***. Ruby, I wish you a very merry Christmas. I want to be your friend.
Heather.S Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 7:33 PM
2. Hi Ruby I have been watching your show for a little while now. I just wanted to write to say that I think you are a very beautiful person both inside and out. It takes a lot of courage to face what you have ,let alone letting everyone in to experience it with you. I know that you can do this, because you are a strong and wonderfuly kind person. I know that with the help of your friends, family and god you will succeed. I also think that you would make an AMAZING mother and wife and any child and man would be lucky to have you * I believe that you are too good a person not to be given the gift of a child, and I hope with all my heart that God grants you that blessing, because if anyone deserves it, it's you. Best of luck with everything you do, and we're all rooting for you.
R.K. Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 7:44 PM
3. Ruby.. I have been watching your show, since I heard about it on His Radio 91.9. I look forward to seeing you each week. The fact that you are sharing this journey that you are on..with the world...is quite amazing. The fact that you are sharing your faith...is just plain awesome! I believe you are one of the bravest people...I have ever seen. You have the most beautiful smile...one that seems to shine around you. You make me laugh, cry...and think..with each show that I watch. Please know..that I have you and your friends (your friends because they said "scary Ruby" comes out..with this dieting stuff) LOL...in my prayers.....I have faith that you can do this... I also think it is so cool that you live in Savannah, I too am a Savannah Girl....(ok...woman...whatever)....details...blah..blah...LOL I look forward to watching every show you do...and I loved the "Savannah tour" thing you did on the trolley.....so funny....Take care...and God Bless ya...
Jenny Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 8:02 PM
4. Ruby * keep working hard, you have so many people who love you! I watch the show, you are such a fun and caring person! It seems silly, since I only know you from TV, but I am so proud of you for working towards your goals. Good for you for accepting help from those who can and will help you. I look forward to seeing your progress!
Sandi Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 8:25 PM
5. Ruby you are a writer. I love reading your stuff it inspires me.
Rachel Seidenstricker Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 8:37 PM
6. RUBY!! you are beautiful and precious!! I have been watching your show and am so inspired...God bless you and your journey. I pray that you will be successful this time. God speed!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!! Rachel Seidenstricker St. Louis, MO.
Amanda Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 8:41 PM
7. Hey Ruby--I love your show. I wish you all the best in you quest for health. I really appreciate your faith and the portrayal of your faith on TV. Although you are going through a struggle (for your life) you remember that Jesus Christ is still in control. I think it is cool too that you and your friends show that us "Christian folks" know how to have fun too (without being too bad!) You are an inspiration! Good luck and I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT!! Phil 4:13!! Don't forget it! Amanda P.S. I am a Georgia peach, like you, I live in Milner, GA (it's up near ATL). Savannah is one of my favorite places to visit. I am a Savannah Candy Kitchen addict!!
mari Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 8:41 PM
8. hi Ruby, thought for you * you've mentioned a lot that when you can't eat the foods you're used to liking, you feel like you're being punished. In the three shows I've seen, it's been a consistent theme. This kind of thing would be worth investigating with your therapist * over-eating is caused by the mind, and the attitudes that are held there. If you equate reward with eating a lot, and punishment with eating less, or eating more healthy food, it will be hard to sustain the changes you're trying to make; instead it will just be like a prison sentence that you're living through. Changes of mindset are what bring about real, lasting change. For example you might think that by eating less and healthily, you're rewarding yourself, and treating yourself well, because you're tending to your health and well-being. This kind of thinking gives far more motivation to succeed than feeling you're being punished. And it's important to find out why you feel eating less is punishment. Good luck.
Ashley Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 8:42 PM
9. Ruby, I just must say I love you. You absolutely are wonderful. I'm so glad you have found faith, and I honestly believe that you will reach your goal. I know it seems so, so hard. But God does not lead us down the easy or more traveled path. He chooses to lead us down the less traveled path, and that with faith in him, makes us stronger through the hard times as long as we believe in him. I pray for you everyday to help give you strength. You also keep me inspired to keep to my diet and exercise as well. Your determination gives me the strength to not cheat as well. Keep to believing and never doubt yourself. Doubt will lead to temptation, and I have faith in you too! take care, and can't wait until the next show airs!
Cynthia Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 9:01 PM
10. Ruby, you are an inspiration to everyone! God bless your strength and fortitude. I love your show and you are simply awesome! I must say though, that you seem to continually put yourself into situations that would be difficult for any person. Restaurants at every turn, places that serve your "favorites"? It seems to make your life so much harder. Maybe until you get your "head" totally into this life saving change, you should avoid some of these situations? Yes, these places are in our "normal" lives but perhaps not just now. Maybe for now, your friends shouldn't eat like they do in front of you? It seems so unkind and detrimental to your future. I know they love you and you must adjust your thinking wherever you are, but I think this is very undermining behavior on their part as well as yours.You are so special and I know you will succeed, but when a recovering alcoholic walks into a bar, he is just setting himself up to fail. Think about that. I love you and pray for you, pretty girl
Cheryel Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 9:30 PM
11. Ruby, I love your show and watch it every since I discovered it about 3 weeks ago. I have the same battle you do right now. I started at 525 pounds and got down to 306 and now have gone back up to 425 pounds. I have been really trying to keep on a program, but it is so hard. My doctor recently put me on Metformin for blood sugar problems I'm now experiencing. I keep telling myself, when will this all be over? I watch your show so that I know I'm not the only one going through this experience. I need to be encouraged, as I know you do. I was so glad when you got rid of that old boyfriend of yours. You deserve so much more than him. If he can not except you for who you are, and not what you look like, than he doesn't deserve you. You are such a wonderful person and deserve a real man. If you are ever back in the Los Angeles area again, maybe we can get together and cry on each others shoulders. I would love to fit in clothes like your friends did tonight. "We will someday!"
Judy Sun, Dec 14, 2008, 10:16 PM
12. Dear Ruby, I think you are beautiful inside and out. I certainly can empathize with your journey. It is so hard but well worth it health wise. I love your show and would miss you terribly if you were not on. I enjoy you so much. You are a treasure as well as an inspiration. God Bless, Judy
julie Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 12:47 AM
13. dear ruby, thank you for the show.you give me hope that i can lose it to. im a big women of 316 pounds and it is so hard to lose im like you i do not remember my childhood for 6 years i lived in a mission for children that there parents could not take care because they were sick.well my mother was very sick. thank you for the courage that i can do it. love always julie
julie Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 1:08 AM
14. dear ruby, thank you for the show.you give me hope that i can lose it to. im a big women of 316 pounds and it is so hard to lose im like you i do not remember my childhood for 6 years i lived in a mission for children that there parents could not take care because they were sick.well my mother was very sick. thank you for the courage that i can do it. love always julie
Jeannie Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 1:10 AM
15. Ruby, you are an inspiration to me! I love to see your sweet smile and your determination! Phil 4:7 has been my life scripture. I too have faced struggles in my lifetime. I am now a grandma of 13 and great grandma of 4. I only gave birth to the first 3 LOL. In the last 5 1/2 years I have been caring for my mother with the help of my awesome husband, Bruce. We have both put on a weight since April when my mom had a severe stroke. I know God has a plan but I take on her emotional struggle. I have to leave her in the hsp. but know that only Jesus, who paid the ultimate sacrifice can carry her burden. His burden is light I just forget to CAST MY CARES. I am learning to cast my cares on Him, and allow Him to strengthen me. YOU ARE AMAZING, I'm so happy that you chose to share your journey with us. You help us to succeed! We are praying for you that you too "can do all things thru Jesus Christ * Phil 4:13. We also know that our "words" are life or death. Speak victory!
princess Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 4:08 AM
16. You stand alone in this world not because of your beast. It is because of your heart. We love you!
Cynthia Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 7:57 AM
17. Hello Ruby, I love watching your show! I haven't missed and episode yet. I can relate to your story so well and my struggles with my own weight. I am so motivated by you and your wondeful friends. Good Luck and I'll keep watching! I only wish your show was on an hour instead of 30 minutes! lol
Nicole Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 9:50 AM
18. ~Ruby~ You are my new favorite person!!! I enjoy watching your show, you are soooo sweet, kind, and compassionate. I think you have positively impacted lives across the country! We are all rootin' for you, we know you can do it!!!
Eleanor Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:36 AM
19. Ruby, Keep up the good work. You are doing great. It does take time to trust but you'll learn. Your friends are great. They care so much about you. I care about you. Just remember 1 day at a time or even 1 minute at a time. I believe in you. You are a beautifu person. Keep your chin up. You'll do it. You are making me really think about quitting smoking. It will be hard. I am alike you in alot of ways. I just don't have the support system like you. I really do admire you. Take care,Eleanor
donna Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:37 AM
20. thank you ruby l love your show you are a insperation to me because i on that weight journy my self i love your determination and will power even when you feel like givin up you don't keep up your spirt you are defently a insperation to me and i wil keep up my too thank you ruby your awlsome
Janda Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:54 AM
21. I once was blind but now I see. Thank you Ruby
Cali Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:56 AM
22. Style and Ruby can we have a mtg and greet. I really want to meet Ruby. My friends and I will come to Savannah.
Jilly Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 11:00 AM
23. Hi Ruby Sweetheart * You are SUCH an inspiration to me!! I feel like you are telling MY story too. I know as Americans we tend to be overweight and/or obese. I am about 410 lbs. and 6'3 so you can imagine the looks that I get! I started out at 495 lbs. (had to stand on two scales) but am trying to do this slowly through portions and exercise that I am able to do. I have been in a plane (just like you) and had to actually purchase two seats. I took up one and a half seats. Talk about mortified. I was on my way to see my boyfriend (at the time) who couldn't love me fully until I lost my weight (like you). I understand what he meant but it still hurt very deeply, talk about rejection. I have wanted to be married and have a child * all I'm asking God for is one. Just like you, my whole life, I've been very fat and heavy and I just knowwww that if I lost this weight I would be hot!! Ruby, you are gorgeous. I know you're gonna do it and I'll be with you in Chicago working on myself!
Jilly Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 11:13 AM
24. I've seen all your episodes and I can identify with every single one. My dream is to go on a roller coaster like when I was a kid. I would give anything to have the endurance of my families and friends to be able to walk up 3 or 4 stairs and not get winded. If I could even walk quickly it would be exciting to me LOL. I don't fit in cars well (and with the height) I get stared at. But the thing that hurts the most I think is people ignoring me. When someone is walking towards you and you try to smile at them and make eye contact they're always looking the other way. There are SO MANY things I want to do but it's very difficult to not et depressed or give up on the dream of being normal like everyone else. My love/hate relationship with food over the years has cost me everything. Loss of relationships and friends, avoiding social gatherings, hospital visits, the list goes on. I totally identify! Ruby, I promise from this day on to pray for you every day. Please pray for me in Chicago!
Laurie Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 11:18 AM
25. Thank you Ruby for helping me to stay on my diet as well...I can totally relate to you in every way and I too have got to do this for myself. and my health. I have fought with my weight all my life (53 years!) and I'm ready to live my second half a lot thinner. I've been dieting for 5months and I've lost 63 so far and like you I have a long ways to go but I know I'll make it this time..you are a kindred spirit to me and you inspire me to keep on going. I have no doubt you will continue with success and someday we can both look back and say I knew it wasn't gonna be easy but boy was it worth it!! You keep strong, chin up and take it one day at a time. I'm sending hugs and prayers your way! Love, Laurie
barbmotto Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 3:00 PM
26. Dear Ruby, Hello Best Wishes * I saw your show today for the first time and felt your augh I got that too. I spent most of my life on the opposite side of the fence. I was way to small but for me I had always been tiny. Im 5 ft tall so im small all over.. Suprise not no more I still have no idea what happend to me but my weight was 89 pounds and I ate like everyone else no dieting just ate and no weight gain.. Today Ruby im fighting so dam hard to lose weight something I never thought I would do in my lifetime. Girlfriend let me tell you I walked this summer 40 miles a week and then rode a bike 17 miles a day monday thru friday and i still weigh 170 pounds talk about augh very discouring for sure but Ruby I wont give up seeing you makes me want to keep at it. I hope someday to make a trip to Georgia an meet you * That would be such a honor Ruby your a CHAMP keep up the great work and Best Wishes Love Barb Motto http://www.notoverthehill.com/BarbMotto
Renae Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 3:27 PM
27. Dear Ruby I weigh 345 down from 365., and not honestly dieting. I am still obsessed with food, but because of your how I am starting to talk to God about my sin of looking at food and not at Him. I too am a believer in God, and I KNOW that God meets everyoe where they ARE. There is a difference between being judgmental and being discerning. When your Doctor B said to you that when you were relying on yourself and not trusting your team of supporters, he was being loving and dicerning, not judgemental, and I am certain yu agree with that. I think many people assume that when someone makes a statement that is actually loving and discerning that the person is being judgemental. ometimes LOVE means having to say something unpleasant. Renae
Shirley Grigsby Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 4:22 PM
28. Hi Ruby, I have been watching your show and I am praying for your success. You are an awesome individual who is facing a significant challenge but the beautiful thing is that you can and will achieve your goal. When I think about the 30 lbs. that I need to lose to reach my goal, I feel guilty about complaining that it is so hard. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will succeed. As you know, you cannot become impatient. Slow is steady and longer lasting. You are learning behavior modification that will help you maintain your weight loss after it is achieved. God will make you stronger and give you the strength to endure. Keep your beautiful smile and sweet spirit. Everything your heart desires will come to you when the time is right. God Bless! The "VICTORY" is yours!!!!!! Looking forward to seeing you reach your ultimate goal!! With Sincere and Warmest Regards, Shirley
Pamela Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 5:28 PM
29. Ruby, I am also a large woman weighing 365 at the age of 46. I watch your show and can relate to alot of what you talk about regarding your feelings and questions as to why. I also have a deep faith in God and know thru him all things are possible. The episode where your ex boyfriend came back really made me angry only because I got the feeling he was only there to get exposure for himself. I also had a boyfriend in my single days and how many times did I hear him say to me, "lose the weight and we will get married." Well, I knew he was never going to be the one for me and I deserved much better and did marry a wonderful man. I truly believe there is someone out there that will love you unconditionally no matter what the future holds, but losing the weight has to be about you and noone else. Lose the weight not to be thin, but to be healthy and like you said to be able to enjoy life!!! Keep up the good work girl and know I am right along side of you every step of the way!!!
Eleanor Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 6:23 PM
30. Ruby, Keep up the good work. You are doing so well on this diet. I wish I could send you a card or do something special for you. I am just not sure how to do this for you. Do I need to go through my style * You are doing so much for everybody with your TV show. This is why I wish I could do something for you. I wonder how much you read everything? There is so many of us that supports you and think you are wonderful. Maybe you need to hire someone to go through all this..LOL Take care Ruby. You can do this.
Adam Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 7:43 PM
31. Ruby! I loved this week when they put cake down and you were like "Ohmigosh I can't believe you're putting a cake right down in front of me!" I can so identify. So glad you didn't give into the temptation! That must have been so hard. Love you!
heather Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 7:46 PM
32. you are a great person i am about 332 poiund i am on metformn plus 3 diffrent blood preasure med but you keep going iam hoping to get to my goal in about 12 month that is what my doctor want me to have the weight off you can email if you want too take acre and keep uphte good work and keep god in your faith
James Ballard II Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 8:24 PM
33. Hello Ruby, My name is James, and I like to tell you that you are not alone. My mother has struggled with her weight for, well as long as I have known her. She has tried a long list of diets and It has been hard watching her go up and down the pole, but she had to realize that she could not do it on her own. Sometimes God will allow us to try things our way,not to watch us fail but for us to learn to trust him. I watch your show today and I love the fact that you gave your struggle to God. He will take care of it for you, with your help. So don't give up, keep pressing forward. And remember,I can do all thing through Christ who strengthens me! Oh! yeah, Sorry I forget to mention, MY FRIENDS AND I HAVE A CUSTOM PAINT AND BODY SHOP HERE IN SAVANNAH,GA AND WOULD LOVE CUSTOMIZE ONE CAR FREE OF CHARGE FOR YOU. MAYBE YOUR ROOMMATE'S, CAR IT DOESN'T MATTER WITCH ONE SO PLEASE GIVE ME A CALL TO DISCUSS SOME IDEAS MY TELEPHONE NUMBER IS (912) 507-0583 LOOK FORWARD TO TALK *
DeJust Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 8:28 PM
34. Ruby I watched the episode tonight that had Georgas Birthday. and the part where they where trying on clothes. I saw a look on your face the same look I have gave so many times in my life. The hurt and this show hit so home to me I felt like it was me being filmed. I had Gastric bypass 3 years ago. and Yes I lost some weight. but for the Life altering experiance it was. I dont think 80 some odd lbs was worth it. When I hear you say I feel I am being punished. that is so me. I dont understand why I could mimic and it the same amount and the same frequency that every one else does and gain weight. and Even now with this surgery. there are so many things I cannot eat. and I am still obese. I am never, never full. I dream of foods. I know this is awful I **** for foods. Just this surgery will not allow me to eat it. I call this curse Head Hunger with real growling and Hunger pains in my stomach.
Robbi Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 8:40 PM
35. Miss Ruby, First off I want to thank you for having he courage to do this all so some of us can gain courage to do this with you. You are an amazing and beautiful woman.I am doing this with you. I am a shorty 5'2 and 240 lbs. I also have medical issues that press me to lose weight. I have procrastinated for years and have given one excuse after another. I watch your show and it gives me hope every time i watch it. I see in you a woman that is determined. I believe that we can do this Ruby. You do not know me but By Gods grace we will know each other someday." Press on ",as Paul said in Philippians or maybe Paul would say now * You go girl !!!!!!"Till later. may sweet Jesus give you Peace and strength.
Micheala Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:02 PM
36. Hi Ruby! You go girl!!!! YES!! I watched your show tonight (Sunday's episode with Denny...) and was really pulling for you to just remain (distant) friends with him & start loving yourself more than anyone & YOU DID IT!!! It was so great to see you make that transformation...I bet your shows were done forever ago, so this is old news to you, but watching you do that was so great....there is absolutely someone out there who will love you for who you are inside & out & that person is YOU (of course, it's not a lot of fun to take yourself on a date or snuggle up with yourself when it's cold out...lol...:), BUT once you love you then whatever else happens it icing on the cake!!! I do have a question that keeps crossing my mind when I watch your show....why not bariatric surgery? Has that ever crossed your mind? I SO support you in the way you are going about this because you are treating the entire disease of obesity, but I just keep wondering about that! Blessings, girl! U Rock!
Lizz Evans Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:05 PM
37. My Dear Beautiful Ruby, I fell in love with your accent and your warmth the first time I tuned into your show on Style Network. I think you are so sweet and I am encouraged by your laughter. I am a Senior (just) and disabled, but I have my crosses to bear too. I am a heart patient, diabetic, asthmatic and have COPD and Fibromyalgia. I have good days and bad days like everyone else and my problem is mostly trying to do too much when I am having a not so painful day! I try to run it till the wheels fall off and that only causes me to be laid up sore and stiff and angry with myself because I didn't use wisdom in the things I try and get done. My only saving grace is the fact that before the pain catches up to me, I feel a deep self worth at having done something and made a contribution to our * my sweet long suffering husband Ronn) lifestyle. I love doing my own laundry and mopping my own kitchen, sometimes that is too much. I won't give up if you don't. Peace and Love -Lizz
Adrienne Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:10 PM
38. Ruby, you are beautiful! You positively shine! I am rooting for you, and I believe in you! You are truly and inspiration, keep up the good work!
Laura Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:35 PM
39. Dear Ruby, I watch your show and I wanted to let you know that I also struggle with my weight. I am 300+ pounds and watching you gives me hope knowing that I am not the only one that is struggling. You are a beautiful person and I love you for you!!!
Carolyn Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:48 PM
40. Dearest Ruby, I came on this site to encourage you, but it is I that have been encourage. I do not know you personally, but I love you and I pray that God will continue to bless you and only place positive non-judgemental people in your life but know that even if all your friends & family leave there is one who will never forsake or leave you. As I sit here with tears streaming down I bless God for you and to God be the glory for your victory is already won. We just have to wait for the manifestation of it. Girlfriend keep on keeping on. We can do all things through Christ which strengthen us. Be blessed & keep God first in all that you do.
Darla Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 10:52 PM
41. Hi Ruby, I just watched the episode of you going to church. I love the show and watch/tape it faithfully but I NEVER thought I would ever be inclined to send you a note. I'm still not even sure exactly why. I have struggled with weight issues my entire life (I'm 40 now) and although my goal weight is only about 50 pounds away, it feels like it may as well be 500. I am SO proud of you Ruby * seriously. I admire you and I want to tell you that I have never seen a more beautiful person as I see in you. I know I can never feel the extent of the pain and suffering you have gone through because, well, because I'm NOT you, but I can tell you that I relate to your feelings of being "trapped" in a cage. My cage may be a little smaller but it still separates me from letting others love me the way they want to. I know its because I have a hard time loving myself. YOU CAN DO THIS! This may be wrong to say, but I'm counting on you to stay on track. I've promised myself to try with you. Darla
bambi Mon, Dec 15, 2008, 11:05 PM
42. I laughed my *** off when the tire bent on the scooter, When I saw her riding on it, my first thought was get off your fat a** and walk. She needed to leave the scooters for real disable people, not FAT LAZY PEOPLE. Being embaressed on the plane because she couldn't crush the poor kid to death. poor baby, she need to realize she's a 2 or 3 seat person, they are lucky the plane didn't tilt.! Ruby you are a gem, To bad you let it get lost in flab!
Nana Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 12:38 AM
43. Ruby, I know you can do all things with Christ in your life. I was where you are not, but with help of my doctor and faith in God. I am 235 pounds less. I choose to have gastric bypass, I was on my dead bed and needed a miracle, this was what worked for me. I tell people, eat right, exercise and listen to the doctor is the best way to go. Because surgery is the lost hope for some of us. God Bless, for I know He is watching over you. If He can do it for me He can do it for you. My favorite Bible scripture is 23rd Psalm Keep looking up, that is where your help will come from Father God. Love Your New Friend in Christ, Nana
amanda_2008 Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 6:43 AM
44. Ruby, Thanks for all the you do!!! You have inspired me to go on my own weight loss journey!!! I am rooting for you **** I love your blog it is so inspring!!! I want to thank you for having the courage to share this with us. I can't wait till the next episode!! Merry Christmas ***
Tina Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 7:02 AM
45. What a blessing & encouragement you are to so, so many people! You have a great smile, & way of looking at life! God has blessed you with a sweet, strong & fun support group of freinds. You are a beautiful, daughter of the king and such a light of hope! We have a friend from back in college who struggles w/ obesity like you so we understand some of what your friends are helping you through. Know that you are not alone people are cheering you on and praying for you! The past effects our now more than we realize, so I encourage you to allow God to show you the things He knows you are strong enough to handle & work through now. He has you on HIs lap & is holding you tight through it all. I am in a church ministry that helps people through recovery of additctions. You are so right we all have ugliness inside: additions or hang ups drink, food, anger, sexual abuse, & sexual additions. We are just able to hide better. He that has started a good work in you WILL complete it! Keep the faith!
Missy Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 8:10 AM
46. Thank you Ruby; thank you...
Colleen Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 8:21 AM
47. Ruby, you are such a beautiful person!! You are so real.....and so entertaining!!! Keep up the good fight..you can do it!!!!! Love the show!!!!!
Linda Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 8:33 AM
48. Hello Ruby, what an inspiration you are to all of us. Take each day with one step at a time, don't give up. No one ever told you it would be easy, but with your faith and attuide and inside beauty, you can do anything that you want.. As you go along your journey you are also helping others who want exactly what you want, so lets stick together and get over this hill. Keep up the good work you have done with your beautiful outlook in front of you. Linda
jen Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 9:27 AM
49. Hi Ruby, Just wanted to let you know how much I admire you. Your spirit, heart and kindness are so inspiring. I firmly believe you will reach you goal, especially with your fight and will. As for the ex-boyfriend episode, it struck very close to home. The contingency offer of "if you do this, I'll do this.." Please know you deserve so much better and will find it. A wonderful man who will treasure you inside and out. I will keep rooting for you! Take care of yourself! Jen
Mary Tue, Dec 16, 2008, 9:59 AM
50. Bless You Ruby!