What do you wear to a company holiday party? I want to look sexy, but not inappropriate.
—Ericka, Sherman Oaks, California

No, no you do not want to look sexy. I don't care how single-and-looking you are. I don't care if you work for Donatella Versace. Work parties and The Sexy do not mix. Ever. Save your urge to look sexy for the clubs, or the cocktail-party-slash-night-wedding, or New Year's Eve. For a work party—even a festive, champagne-fizzy holiday party—you want to look stylish, smart, future-forward. But not sexy. At a work party, sexy equals desperate. Leave it alone.

That isn't to say that your ensemble shouldn't whisper, "Look at me!"

Eye-popping colors are a great way to get attention without looking like you, er, also have a night job. I know I often steer my readers toward Anthropologie, perhaps a little too often, but that's just because the buyers there have made sure that you always have what you need. I recently invested in two killer holiday looks from that very boutique, including a gorgeous, double-layered plum creation with a thick, silk black obi sash. The store is also offering a fantastically genius black cocktail dress with just the right amount of "hello" for a company party, including a stand-away neckline and…oh, just look at it here.

Another fabulous option for you? A feminine take on the tuxedo suit, or a standout dinner jacket. Just stay with me for a second, here. Unless you're a boss, chances are you're having a little trouble being taken seriously at work, especially if you're the type who thinks that looking sexy at a work party is A-OK. A tuxedo suit—one with just the right amount of subtle plunge—emits the perfect message: Why, yes, I AM hot and smart, why do you ask? Did you need something? Get in line.  As far as brands go, no one does these looks better than St. John, whose zebra-print evening jacket is really all you need.

One final look to consider: The exotic. I strongly advise you to go for a look that takes you just outside of your comfort zone. Company parties are opportunities for colleagues to see you in a new light. Don't blow it by crawling into yet another scoop-neck LBD. Just look at what designer Joy Han has done with party frocks. Why not try one of her flowing, off-the-shoulder numbers for just a tiny bit of oomph without crossing the line? This minidress would look perfect—with an elegant pair of crepe pants, of course.

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