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• #1 Ruby fan Wed, Jan 7, 2009, 6:28 PM

  1. Ruby, you are such a sweetheart and an inspiration to me. I have 70 pounds to lose. Because of you, I have started dieting and exercising again. And with you beside me this time, I really believe that I can do this! Thank you!

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• Teresa Wed, Jan 7, 2009, 9:32 PM

  2. Ruby I just love you girl *** I don't get to watch you on tv alot but keep up with you on the web. I am so glad that you are sharing what you are going threw with everyone. I am a big girl too and have my own battles and seeing you face your's the way you do gives me more faith in myself. I to am on a journey and determined to reach my goal. I will keep you in my prayers. Keep on keeping on ** God Bless.

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• A NELSON Wed, Jan 7, 2009, 9:38 PM

  3. RUBY ROCKS!!!!

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• Vicki Wed, Jan 7, 2009, 11:43 PM

  4. It kind of makes me mad that other people's comments caused you to have to "clarify" some things because, Ruby, you don't need to explain anything to ANY of us. I've never gotten the feeling that anything about you or your show is fake, and I've watched every single episode.You're just about perfect in my eyes. I really admire you for putting yourself out there; I bet you never figured on winding up with such a huge fanbase, did ya?!! Don't get distracted by the noise of few; instead, feel warm from the love of many! I'm one of the "many" who absolutely adore you! Do you realize that you have this incredible glow? There's a radiance in your face that is some kind of reflection of who you are deep inside. It's not something I've seen very often in other people. There's just something really special about you, Ruby!

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• Lindi Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 3:56 AM

  5. Ruby you rock girl, keep it up cause a lot of us look up to you.cheers!

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• le Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 7:18 AM

  6. thank you for your bravery and honesty and for inspiring so many people to take charge of their happiness. There are many reasons why we don't honor ourselves and most are usually rooted deep inside our psche stemming from childhood hurts;..but thank God we have the choice to forget the past and move forward. Just move forward, don't look back and create something great. The best compliment you can give yourself, your loved ones and God is to live, thrive, pamper yourself, love yourself and be the best you. stick out your tongue at the naysayers.xoxxo

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• Amy Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 7:33 AM

  7. Hey Ruby: I'm with Vicki. The only person any of us has to answer to is ourselves. That has been a hard lesson for me to learn in my own life. I think what you are doing in terms of sending 'Bertha' packing (lol) and getting healthy is amazing. I think it is even more amazing that you are facing your inner fears and demons with the world watching. I hope you are proud of yourself * I know I am proud of you. I have recently started my own weight loss plan. To help motivate me, I posted inspirations on post it notes all over my treadmill and bathroom mirror. You might laugh * and hopefully be touched * to know one of them says 'What Would Ruby Do?' Take care and I can't wait to see where your journey takes you next!

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• Jennifer Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 7:34 AM

  8. Ruby, I am so proud of you. Those that have never had a problem with their weight don't have a clue. You have given me a new outlook, the one that I needed. I have been going to the doctor for months trying to get chloesterol and blood sugar on the right track. Unfortunatley now I am on medications to make it better. Because of your bravery I am now taking steps to get my life body into my control not the other way around. I have 1 grandson and a granddaughter on the way. I've got too much to live for to give up now. Keep trying to remember, that's where the key is at. I know because when I sit down alone and eat everything in sight, those memories are what always come to the surface first. Keep up the great work that you are doing and remember that you are not alone. We are all fighting with you and for you.

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• Meljohn Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 8:02 AM

  9. Ruby, I admire all of your hardwork and determination. I loved your season finale and I can't wait until the show resumes. It's amazing seeing someone appreciate the simple things, like fishing and setting under the stars and also realizing how many people take such simple things for granted. God created all of these breathtaking adventures for us and most people don't even realize they are there. You are an awesome person and you deserve all the happiness and healthiness that you can achieve. It's great how your friends stand by you and how excited they get for you when you are accomplishing new goals. Keep up the hard work. I'll say a prayer for you and I hope that one day while I'm enjoying my camping trips I might run into you, of course you would have to journey to Louisiana or Arkansas for that to happen, but who knows! Best wishes!

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• kay Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 8:45 AM

  10. Ruby I love your show becuase its so truthful and honest.. You are amazing and courageous!! dont give up and dont listen to negative coments. Your doing this for yourself and showing us how it may feel to be in your shoes.. People need to relax and if they dont like you show watch something else. Dont post coments on something your not sure about. People relax and support someone that needs your compasion which I think at times this society lost it somewhere... God Bless and keeping on lossing... Go Girl!!

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• Vanessa Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 9:13 AM

  11. Ruby I am deeply touched by your show. Your honesty and the relationship you have with your friends is incredible. I see the love in hugs, laughter, stories and time spent with each other. All of our journeys are different. It is inspiring me in my personal journey to move forward from where I am and find a better understanding of where I have been. Thank you for sharing you with all of us!

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• David Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 10:47 AM

  12. Ruby I htink your awsome!

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• Linda Miller Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 10:52 AM

  13. Ruby Congratulation! you ARE an amazing woman. I have been with you from the beginning of your journey. I have laughed with you. cried with you and I also prayed with you. I am very overweight as well, and I started to clean up my act * I have lost about 30 lbs. and started to exersize. A recent knee surgery casued a minor set back in my exersize program, but your determination and strength got me going again. You are an angel, I don't have a group of friends that support me like you do. I am pretty much alone. But with each lost lb. I gain more self * esteem and determination to succeed. You are a God sent. The sincerity and love you have just makes you glow. I wish I had a friend like YOU. God Bless you and keep you safe and healthy as you continue to lose the weight. My prayers will always be with you. PS As for your circle of friends and family, You are the BEST Please continue to love and support Ruby.. She is ONE SPECIAL GIRL Oh, did I mention You are really beautiful

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• ta2_black Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 10:58 AM

  14. ruby i love your show u are wonderful im a little worried that you should not focus on your childhood so much because if its not good will you be able to handle that plus your sister would have told you i think but plese pray about it let god lead you and guide you keep your head up

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• Noemi Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 11:35 AM

  15. Hi Ruby, I just had to write and say thanks for being such a brave lady....I totally agree with Vicki, there is a special radience that you give off and it draws people to you. I sat and watched your show and now find myself anticipating the next episode. You have restored faith and hope within me that I thought was long gone. I too have pulled out my excercise bike and have started taking evening walks with my son after dinner and I say an extra prayer for you and being thankful that you were willing to share your journey with us. Just know that the beauty you have within you is already shining through!!!

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• Vada Allen Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 12:30 PM

  16. Ruby, You are just such a great blessing and so brave to go on TV with your whole life just hangin' out there! Whew...I don't think I could do that. But you of course are so giving and truthful it seems to be no problem to you. I appreciate that. I am praying that your show is a huge success and that all of us who are working on our weight, will continue to hang with you and be encouraged by your weight loss and all the accomplishments you will have through this incredible journey. We love and appreciate you. Vada Allen

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• Robin Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 12:48 PM

  17. Ruby, you are the greatest! I admire you so much. You have given me the courage to become myself and not someone I think everyone wants to see. I have not be true to myself for so long I don't even know who I am. But because of you I am commited to go on this weight loss journey with you and find myself. I don't remember alot of my childhood, it's kind of patchy. Would you give me some tips on what to do to remember? I have heard you say "I will concour" it makes me realize I can too. It's now my new mantra. Ruby thanks for all you have done for me and others by just being yourself.

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• Anne Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 1:01 PM

  18. Ruby, Just can't thank you enough for taking us along for your journey!! You are so brave!! Keep up the great work!! Love & Prayers, Anne

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• M.Hunter Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 1:16 PM

  19. Hi Ruby! Congrats on meeting your goal a little closer every day! You are looking so good! You will beat the beast! There are so many of us who also have beasts to beat and your an inspriation to us all. *** I will continue to watch your show and be there for you in spirit. Keep on fighting the fight!

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• Trena Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 1:17 PM

  20. Ruby, Congratulation on reach the your first goal of 104 pounds. I am so very happy for you. As I were watching your program I felt as if I was right there experiencing the joy and happiness you felt. You have motivated me to fight and work hard to reach my goal of losing 140 pounds Thanks to you I have started my very own buddy system and support group with a few friend. Do not let anyone distracted you from your goals. Keep up the good work and my prayers are with you *

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• joder Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 1:30 PM

  21. you go Ruby i am so inspired by you you have faced sooooo many different obstacles and fears and have stood strong and tall threw them all you dont have to explain your self to any one keep up the good work girl you are going to make it and in the process help us who are also traveling on the same road you are *

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• Jezebel Jones Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 2:35 PM

  22. Ruby (and everyone), LOVE is the answer. Love of self and love of others. Many people on this list are positive forces in this world. Some people on these forums NEED HELP BADLY. And, SOME people on these forums are negative, very negative. It's their egos. They can't help but attack people just like some people can't help but eat that donut. They, curiously, have even farther to go to be healed than someone needing to lose 400 pounds. Attacking the attackers is also a lack of love. I do it sometimes, and then I remember that in addition to improving my health, both mentally and physically, I also want to continue to evolve to my highest potential in ALL AREAS and that that kind of "low negative vibration" is definitely not uplifting for me or anyone. If in EVERY endeavor we all (esp. us gals) supported one another like a dearly loved sister, how much better would we all be? How much better the world? Please, women, please...respect and love each other as you want to be.

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• Jezebel Jones Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 2:42 PM

  23. That last comment wasn't directed at THIS grouping of comments. They're all very nice and positive. It's elsewhere on the forum that some of us are forgetting that we ALL want to reach our HIGHEST POTENTIAL and that someone's path to enlightenment may not look like someone else's. I just have VERY HIGH EXPECTATIONS for women in general. I KNOW what we are capable of and that is why my expectations are so high. So, anyway, I didn't want there to be any confusion. And I am so happy for Ruby. Because you can say what you like about how much help she has etc... but at the end of the day, it's all up to HER and HER ALONE whether or not she's successful, as it is for each of us. The more I help people lose weight, the more weight I lose. Come to my website and let me help you too, and you can help me. Things are looking quite well over at BringingDownThePounds.com * We share a lot in a respectful atmosphere and we are also Ruby fans (most of us met here) Please stop by.

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• Maryjane Carley Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 2:55 PM

  24. Ruby, Wishing you the very best in your future. I know that no matter what may come your way you are strong and will face it head on. You are such a wonderful and warm person. A great gal I am honored to call my friend. The way that you welcomed all of us into your life with open arms and opened up about "The Beast" and so many other things just leaves me amazed time after time. Thank you for doing your best to make sure that you have takien the time to write back and show others support in return makes you so much more than I think even you realize you are. You are priceless my friend. I can't wait for Season 2. Keep your chin up and be proud of who you are, Keep Laughing, Keep up the GREAT work, Keep shining and God bless you always. Mj

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• Melissa Boclair Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 2:57 PM

  25. Ruby- We love you! Congrats on the success you have made so far. You will reach your goal! We are all here supporting you.

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• Julie Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 4:51 PM

  26. Howdy Ruby, Im From Knoxville Tennessee, 3 Months Ago I weighed 394 Pounds And I went To my Pulmanary Dr. and They Told me I wasnt Going To Be here In the Next Five Years If I didnt Lose the weight. it Scared Me So Bad ** I Had My Medical Dr. Put me On Phentermine, I Also Have Been Going To Pulmanary Rehab For exersise, Im on Oxygen,, Because I have COPD. I Am The Mother Of Twin Boys And They will Be 15 Years Old On Saint Pattys Day. I Have Lost 36 Pounfs, And watching You And Your Battle Has Helped Me Fight My Beast. I Want To Thank You For You Honesty And Your Frankness. And i Pray For all The women Like Us That Fight This Battlel. Thank You Miss Ruby And God Bless You........................Julie

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• Theresa Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 5:03 PM

  27. Congratulations on your 100 pound loss. You mean a lot to those of us still out there. You give us hope that we can do it and that people will still love us, now and when we lose the weight. I just wanted to let you know that a lot of us out there are rooting for you and hoping that they follow you all the way through when you meet your goals, because it's like a little bit of reality in all the madness and yet you are still losing your weight. We love you! Keep up the good work! I've started trying to lose weight again because of you! You can do it!

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• debi schoenholtz Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 5:41 PM

  28. Oh Dear Ruby, You are like a daughter 2 me.I will miss u and hearing you on tv.31 year old son,heart cond. he died 6/1/08 31.You have helped me!GOD, all is possible. Ruby, i craft sew and am disabled and yes ssi we know how little ** I have so many cool ideas & saw this trippy fabric, all i do is design stuff 4 you.If you will give me a chance it would give me a goal, to bless u in my grief, i was morbidly obese and my husband is disabled and had 11 surgeries in 08. Please keep going. Ruby You have beautiful curves that needs to be honored.let me d-zine 4 u i can do it! your a knockout, pls.let me sew 4 u perty pls. just as you are, young beautiful curvy woman. We have a Harley hubby watches u 2and hubby is happy to vroom w/u! &OK w/ me. He vol. VA Hosp.helps addicted soldiers & College4 his AAS degree. pls.i need u 2 giving is my gig GOD gave me. I will swear 2 make u so cool gear, were goin back to FLA.?=2 kids..520-908-1441luv 2u,Debi GOD's luv 2 yall! Call me please, can't waitxox

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• mary lizardi Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 7:17 PM

  29. Ruby, i am very impressed with the amazing strength and unselfishness you have displayed by sharing this private journey with all of your viewers. I have quite a bit of weight to lose and by watching you I"ve seen that with a strong support system it is possible. how blessed you are to have such admirable people in your life. I suppose this is because birds of a feather flock together. I look forward to seeing your continued success.

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• Lynette Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 8:21 PM

  30. Ruby, I am addicted to your show. I enjoy watching what you and your friends will do next. I feel I am part of the group. I love your positive attitude towards life. You are a beautiful gal both inside and out. I am going to miss not watching you each week. I hope the show will continue because it is a show that gives people hope and a feeling positive self esteem. How much have you lost now? Lynette

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• Josie Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 8:39 PM

  31. Ruby, I started watching the show because I wanted to see my hometown on display. I'm always proud when I see Savannah on TV, but after the 1st episode, I became FAR more proud of YOU. You are a blessing to so many people ** look at these message boards and the outpouring of LOVE. It's all in support of you, and I applaud you & your efforts. My prayers are with you (and your friends & family) ** keep it up!!!!!

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• Diane Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 9:13 PM

  32. Hey Ruby.... I just want to say "YOU GO GIRL!!! * I love that you are being so honest and showing everyone that changing your whole way of living,NOT just eating, has to do with losing weight. Keep up the good work... And I know that it IS work... You are in my prayers daily.

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• Melissa, Delaware Thu, Jan 8, 2009, 10:17 PM

  33. Ruby- your show is my absolute favorite on television, I have no idea if you realize the magnitude of how many people you are reaching and HELPING, it's like throwing a pebble into the water, you don't see how far it ripples.. you are helping so many, who in turn will help more... your spirit shines so bright, girl you can do ANYTHING.... America is rooting for you and we will be on this journey with you and I just know great things are in store for you, keep on keepin on ** Can't wait for Season 2 ***

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• Betty Chukes-Seward Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 6:14 AM

  34. Ruby I am so proud of you. I am trying to lose ten pound,it is not how many pound just staying with it * I injoy wacthing your show keep on keepinp on. God Bless You.

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• Rochelle Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 9:33 AM

  35. Ruby, I'm getting inspiration from you and I'm pulling for you. You are in my prayers and for the first time in a long time, I feel if Ruby can do it, so can I. I've lost 15# since I've been enjoying your shows and I hope that there will be more seasons of Ruby. You are a natural in this reality show thing, keep up the good work! I'm working on losing 70 more this year. Keep me inspired! Love you, Rochelle

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• Jan Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 9:49 AM

  36. OMG Ruby * if I could, I'd adopt you as my daughter! And your friends, too! My niece got me started on your show and now I am totally a Ruby-holic. I am an old lady, been fat most of my life, lost weight, regained it, and now at this age I just fee like 'why bother'. I'm fortunate in that I have few health issues that are life-threatening, I have a great job (even though I'm past retirement age), wonderful family, kids, grandkids. I cried when I saw you go with Dr. B into the house you'd lived in and didn't remember anything. I do remember my childhood, the good, bad and the ugly. I never realized how scary it would be to have NO memories. I applaud you for your courage and willingness to put yourself out there. I think the Lord must be braggin' on you something big, girlfriend! You are an inspiration for living TRUE * in all aspects * physically, emotionally and spiritually. I wish I lived in Savannah * I'd be trying to find you every day!!! Much love, Jan

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• lisa Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 10:51 AM

  37. You made me cry:( Buy you are so special Ruby.NO NO NO thank you for making my transition easier.God Bless you Doll.

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• katematch Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 12:47 PM

  38. Hi Ruby! Just wanted to say, first of all, that I think you're gorgeous!! I unfortunately don't get to see the Style Network, but I've caught bits and pieces of your story and I'm so proud of you! You're making a difference in others while trying the VERY hard way to make a change for yourself. It's definitely not easy, so keep up the hard work and know that you have sooo many people supporting you.

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• Debbie Serriano Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 4:02 PM

  39. Hello Ruby. I just wanted to say I love the show and your journey to a healthlier way of life. I cannot believe some of the comments that I have read. People who watch your show know that you have a problem. You are working hard to be healthy. You can finally enjoy things that people take for granted like driving a car, going for a walk and being outdoors. I am so proud of you. I think that you are a very loving, giving person. People are always going to say mean things. With the economy the way it is in my profession I see people who once worked everyday. Guess what * They don't have a job, have no income coming in. Now the shoe is on the foot and they are asking for assistance with medical, food and public assistance. They are looking for a job but they can't find one because there are no jobs. Businesses are no longer in business. People should be sensitive and tolerant of other people. So, Ruby stay on the road to recovery, keep walking in your shoes you go girl.

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• China Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 4:56 PM

  40. ruby, you are beautiful and such an inspiration to me! i love ya!

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• Ann Butenas Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 5:57 PM

  41. Hi! I LOVE your show and am SO PROUD of what you are doing! I think you rock and are absolutely beautiful and amazing! Among the many things I do here in Kansas City, I also host two talk radio shows, one of them called KC Metro Woman LIVE! I would LOVE to interview you via phone sometime soon. It would make my day and be such a treat for our listeners! I do hope you consider it! Go to my web site and check out a few things: www.kcmetrowoman.com Thanks for such a great show! I enjoy every minute of it! Ann Butenas

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• Marcia Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 6:07 PM

  42. Ruby, You have overcome and accomplished so much. I was so thrilled when you lost over 100 lbs. I know how hard it is, how slow it seems to go, and how long it takes for the body to change. But I'm with you on the exercise thing for big people. Other shows that have 2, 3, and 400 lb. people running, jumping, squatting (with weights even), are setting them up for severe damage to their knees and ankles. You stick to your guns on that. You have shown how strong you are, walking the mile, camping, driving, and not needing to lean on an ex-boyfriend who wouldn't be good for you. You're above that. Put that strength into your voice and you'll sound more convincing. It'll show confidence even if you don't feel it. And keep up the good work. I can't wait to see your progress.

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• arvilla jean Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 6:51 PM

  43. ruby i too have lots of medical problems due to my weight * i have had 3 strokes and suffer from siezures,along with memory loss,long and short term. and now have sever nerver damage in my legs,arms and hands .but something inside of me always tells me ther is some one worse off than me * so i keep going and the good lord helps alot. thank you for being so brave to help others like us.may the lord bless you on your juorney * your in my prayers.

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• Hez Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 7:01 PM

  44. Ruby Ruby Ruby. You are a light to those who are in the darkness. Thank you for your continued spirit of happiness, truth, and sincerity. You are totally amazing.

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• Marty Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 8:09 PM

  45. Ruby, I love you and your friends. The best thing is the love you have for each other. My very best to you! You are truly a beautiful person.

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• Amy Fri, Jan 9, 2009, 8:31 PM

  46. Ruby * You are awesome! I wasn't interested when I saw the ads about the show * I thought it would be another mean reality show. Your show is so full of hope and life and reality. I saw the first show by accident (tangled up in Christmas lights lol with no way to reach the remote) and have been your fan ever since. My husband and four sons have become your fans as well. We root for you every week and pray for you every day. Everyone has a struggle and so many people are willing to keep their own struggle to themselves and die rather than reach out like you are. You are a beacon to millions & not just those struggling with their weight. If it helps, my husband does not remember a lot of his childhood. We've been married 19yrs and I've learned talking to family members and friends to know that my husband's brain did a good job of protecting him and helping him become an adult. Mabye yours did too. I wish you all the best on the next leg of your journey. Amy

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• sunlotus Sat, Jan 10, 2009, 7:47 AM

  47. Learning to express your feelings for the FIRST time in your life can make you look like a "brat" but that's part of the journey... you become obese by stuffing all these "ugly" feelings down with food. You have to face and experience what you avoided with the food in the first place in order to get through it and move beyond it. I am on a parallel journey with Ruby and I know that for the first time in my life I am learning to tolerate and express feelings I used to "stuff" down with food. I used to just want everyone to think of me as a nice person so I'd eat all those negative feelings away and hurt myself and my health in the process, as long as I didn't make anyone mad at me! Now, people can go ahead and get mad, think whatever they want about me...that's THEIR problem!! People who love me know my heart, know who, what I really am. That's where the trust comes in...but you can't trust millions of people who don't even know you. Rock on, Ruby! Don't let ANYONE get you down!

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• Sarah Sat, Jan 10, 2009, 7:54 AM

  48. Ruby you are the best i just love your show i tape it all the time i started gaining weight when i was 13 just like you i've lost 36 pounds now * i just love your friends and family i think its great they are helping you out. keep doing what you are doing. i just love your smile and how you keep things real. thanks again for the show you are doing. keep up the good work. you are in my prayers.

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• Cheryl Sat, Jan 10, 2009, 8:25 AM

  49. Oh, my goodness, Ruby, such courage to go before America with your struggle. I admire you SO much. Keep up the good work, girl. I've noticed your beautiful face is popping out and your body has changed so much. I am 60 years old and diabetic, but you have inspired me to get moving again to drop more weight in order to control my diabetes. I can hardly wait for your new season, I imagine we will see another huge change by the time that starts.

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• Angela Sat, Jan 10, 2009, 8:25 AM

  50. Ruby, I started my battle/journey right before your show began. I have never been one to follow a "reality show", but yours has touched me. Following you every week has truly helped inspire me. I have lost almost 50 lbs. and am working on another 20 lbs. When I watch your determination and your spirit, I am truly moved and amazed. I know if you can do it I can do it. I have repeated your story to so many of my friends who are struggling with their weight. Keep up the fight, we're all proud of you in Southern Indiana!

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