Running in Heels: Talita Stays Focused

Running in Heels, Talita

Hi, my little lovers and haters!

Wow, I hope you were highly entertained by tonight's episode, as much as I was. During this time, I really felt like I was growing in terms of my internship at MC and that I was making the most out of my experience—and I think it shows.

Having Joyce, one of my heroes, ask me to attend the Banana Republic show and to help her out backstage while she interviewed Simon Kneen, the new creative director, was such an honor. I felt so lucky. It just so happened that I chose to wear a Banana Republic sweater that day. A coincidence? I think not!

Then, just when I had had my share and I thought things would slow down and become boring, Joyce invites me to this incredible store event where she interviews Susan Sarandon. I can't begin to explain how I felt through it all. It was as if I was living a dream—even though I found out at the very last minute and had to practically beg Jeremy to hook me up with something from the fashion closet, since I was not dressed appropriately. (Thank you, Jeremy, for making me look glamorous.) Wearing the dress added anxiety, and I just about died when I almost spilled champagne on it. I managed to play it cool, I think.

I was happy for Ashley and the assignments she was getting and that she was starting to step it up and prove herself. I began to bond with Ash during this time because I knew she was on my same level. At the same time, I did see her as my biggest competition. I like a challenge. But whether she meant it or not, she was supportive of me and my work.

It was hard watching the bickering between me and Samantha because it was very uncomfortable, especially since at the end of the day, we also had to be around each other at home. As I mentioned last week, after the beauty sale incident in which Sam left early to see her boyfriend, I just began to lose respect for her. This turned into me not taking her seriously. I felt as if she didn't want to be there and was very immature.

I am a very confrontational person; when Sam asked to talk to me about what was going on, I was honest with her. I just wanted to help her wake up to reality! I knew she had so much potential, and so I wasn't just playing the role of a "mean girl." Yes, the truth hurts, but it also sets you free! It was hard for me after we talked because I didn't think it was efffective at all.

I just had to keep my focus and my head in the game, so I made sure I did just that. I didn't want any sort of drama—or conflict—to distract me.

All my best,
Talita

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89 Comments

  • Teri Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 5:42 PM

    1. Talita, I believe you are probably a good person somewhere inside of that 2-faced exterior. (okay, maybe not). Ashley, you, although not as bad as Talita, you're behavior has been pretty low too, you're just more of a follower not a leader, very much of a complainer and whiner. Just seeing that clip of you and Samantha and the edited clippings afterward, I lost a lot of respect for you. Regardless of how you feel, there is nothing about 'waste of time conversation' that is in the least professional. So she goes to see her boyfriend, it is not YOUR job to judge any of the other girls. There are times in everyone's professional life where things happen and you really should focus on the job and getting it done the best way possible; make the people above you look good. That is what gets you noticed, not dragging someone else down and stomping on them. Samantha * I hope you win!

  • Fran Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 5:48 PM

    2. I think Talita is a big ******** Can't stand her or Ashley. I hope Sam gets the internship she deserves it for putting up with Miss high and mighty Tallita and Miss attitude Ashley.

  • chardi Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 5:49 PM

    3. Talita, All I hear from you and Ashley on the show is ********* whining, and criticism. Please learn respect. You and Ashley say you have 'more' experience, what ever that means, but you're still just interns. If you are so much better, then why does MC lumps all interns into the same category? An 'experienced" intern would have produced a professional page board. LOL. Your arrogance will come back to bite you in the *** one day * like finding yourself in a hostile workplace. I haven't seen one WOW thing from any of you, so I don't understand where you and Ashley are coming from with your cynicism when you two ASSume Sam's positive attitude is phony. I think you two just want to control because you think you are some how more deserving of something you have obviously not earned. You're not alone. MANY girls your age have that entitlement metality.

  • lea Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 5:51 PM

    4. Wow. You are just so UGLY in every way. Does not eating really make you that BITCHY?

  • CJ Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 6:04 PM

    5. Wow....can we say JEALOUS?? Talita * you and Ashley should really be ashamed of yourselves. You make it seem like Samantha is envious of you and the assignments you have recently received but in all honestly... it's the other way around. Why is it you think you are superior to Samantha? BIG DEAL she went to see her boyfriend...get over it! At least she realizes that it's not always about work. It's important to have a personal life as well. Trust me...you're on your way to having very few friends. The fact that Samantha was humble enough to accept a less than glamourous assignment says a lot (and I'm sure the folks at MC notice that). I hope you wake up one day. While I like the concept of the show you and Samantha make me sick...you set a horrible example for young women.

  • lauren Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 6:14 PM

    6. I have been an avid reader of MC for years but if Talita or Ashley are awarded a job there over Samantha I won't bother buying it any more...if the powers that be at MC can't figure out what these 2 are all about then there's nothing that I want to learn from them...

  • marie Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 6:55 PM

    7. I'm pretty sure backstabbing is not waking people into reality but instead playing the role of a "mean girl". And instead of waking samatha into reality YOU should probably wake yourself into reality, don't expect people to whine and complain about your 'glamorous' assignments, because you're not in high school anymore. MC staffers don't brag about their assignments in front of you so you should do the same. And just a pointer, say you didn't get this internship aka. no job from MC- their is the off chance a future employer were to see your and your attitude and how you present yourself on a day to day basis. Do you really think they'd consider you? I mean they've seen you (the REAL you) and your negative attitude towards other employees (and on video too!), employers don't want trouble makers, they want mature people.

  • Susan Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 7:15 PM

    8. Talita,There are few things worse than someone who thinks they are better than others. A little humility please * * * also, Samantha took the high road and tried to speak with you directly regarding your bitterness towards her and you were sooooo disappointing. It was an opportunity to show you have some humanity but instead you were really icy and awful. It is difficult to watch such a mean girl have a great opportunity. I hope the MC staff will see your true colors very soon!

  • meg Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 7:27 PM

    9. I hope by watching this show you realize how annoying you are, Talita. There is no reason in ANY industry that you should be rude or classless. I am a fashion designer, and if you ever came to interview me or stepped foot in my store, I would question your professionalism with your inability to communicate one sentence without saying the word "like." Learn to get over yourself- you are not special, just another intern who has the horrendous taste to wear panty hose with jean shorts in a professional environment. I have only seen old grandma's wear pantyhose with shorts. Way to go on your fashion decision!

  • Meg Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 7:36 PM

    10. I finally remembered who you remind me of- a very annoying Densie Richards. You have the same destructive personality as she, but it will only take some time for the whole staff to see your true colours. Lay off the ********* darling- otherwise you will ruin your chances at any other jobs in the fashion industry.

  • Rebecca Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 7:53 PM

    11. Talita,What is wrong with you? You won't go very far in life with that major chip on your shoulder.

  • tip Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 8:22 PM

    12. it was so obvious that samantha was so genuine to you in congratulating your "lucky" not earned red carpet assignment! you are despicable to a fault! Please understand that your 'haters' are the sane ones and you are more than disillusioned about yourself! UUUh you make me wannna VOMIT!

  • Sydney Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 8:22 PM

    13. All you and Ashley do is criticize Samantha. It makes the both of you look extremely childish. I feel sorry for Samantha.

  • Gilby Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 8:45 PM

    14. Talita *** I really hope you get the internship at MC, because anyone else watching this show would have to be crazy to hire you. Once you grow up and realize the attitude you have towards other people is very important in working a real job. Internships are tests to see if you would make a good employee. It's not just about skill. It's about respect for your career and for you fellow employees, no matter what you really think of them. Your unprofessionalism really shows and your attitude makes you a future non-employee. While Samantha may not have the higher skill levels, she seems the most employable out of the three of you.

  • jimmy Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 8:47 PM

    15. You are truly a horrible person, your condescending face makes me sick!!!!!!

  • Susan Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 8:50 PM

    16. How does it feel to be shown as such a witch! What is up with young women being poor sports, back biters and just plain venomous. Seriously ** rethink what you are doing and how you will view it a few years down the road. Get over yourselves *** each of you!

  • Kim Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 8:57 PM

    17. I cannot stand her fake bangs! they are the wrong color! if you're going to wear a air piece, get one made instead of buying a cheap one at the flea market...

  • Kristy Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 9:02 PM

    18. I find the best way to avoid conflict is to get rid of it, solve it. By saying, "Did you get what you wanted out of this conversation, * and knowing that Samanth obviously hadn't, was a hasty and did not solve anything. I admire your work ethic and motivation, but wanting to still have balance between a social life and work life does not determine who wants to be there more. It just shows your difference in values. You value success in business, and Samantha values time with loved ones.

  • Dana Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 9:05 PM

    19. You are hard to watch. Your actions towards others and your preoccupation with everyone you feel should be beneath you.....just proves the opposite is true. You have a low self-esteem and can only feel superior when you are putting those around you in "their place." Your priorities are so far out of whack it is unbelievable. You will learn one day that it is relationships that are important in this life....not ttles or position. I hope for your sake that you can change before it all comes back to you. What you reap, you will sow. It's a Godly principal that never goes out of style and never changes.A good start would be apologizing to Samantha for your horrible behavior. Are you really proud of yourself after watching how you behave? I would be so ashamed.

  • Bonnie Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 9:14 PM

    20. All I can say is that you need to grow up! i have been watching the show from the beginning and all you do is WHINE, WHINE, WHINE. When someone on the show provides constructive critisim, you perceive it as being ripped apart! Where have you been hiding? You are an INTERN! Not sure if you and Ashley understand that concept. It seems that both of you have unrealistic expectations. If you really want to succeed; then you are going to have to get used to burning the midnight oil, develop a work ethic and use SPELLCHECK! For goodness sake, get of the pitty pot and roll up your fashionable sleeves, and do something other than whine!

  • sammy Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 9:25 PM

    21. Pig face! pig face! Shame on your pig faceTalita!

  • April Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 9:36 PM

    22. Talita you are still my favorite! Your "haters" don't realize that you had to live with Samantha and be around her 24/7 and that this show is nothing but great editing! Funny how on the assignments you get to go on you are so professional and get great praise from the editors at MC. Get it girl~!

  • violet Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 10:30 PM

    23. April, you must be watching another show!! Talita is a ****** So what that she has to live with Samantha and that other dumb **** When you get out in the real world you have to put up with people you dont like. That's life, but her attitude stinks. She might get praised but she should be ashamed of her behavior tonight when Samantha tried to talk to her. Grow up Talita!! All I know is Karma will come back and bite you in the **** She'll get hers.

  • Lund Sun, Mar 29, 2009, 11:21 PM

    24. You and Ashley are horrible. It's like you're stuck in a junior high mentality. I think you're both jealous of Samantha because she doesn't look and sound like a man, (you do), nor does she look like a Halloween witch, (Ashley does). This show has made me lose respect for Marie Claire. It's bad advertising for the magazine.

  • Sheri Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 1:17 AM

    25. Fix your lisp, Talita. And BTW Sam rocks!!!

  • klumbo Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 2:26 AM

    26. Talita.....The lowest of the low....ugliest of the ugly....and on and on and on. If you hurry, perhaps you can land a job flipping burgers. Your fashion sense is non-existent and your people skills are worse. What a moron.

  • Leila Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 5:07 AM

    27. Dear Talita- I think you are lovely and have a lot of potential. I mean the following only in the most constructive, possibly maternal, way- I wonder if your disproportionate anger at Samantha stems from your own insecurity about your spelling problem. Many highly intelligent people can't spell. You just need to use spell check always. Good luck to you! Love, Leila

  • kimberly Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 6:29 AM

    28. Talita I'm still kinda hoping you go all the way here. You are starting to act like Ashley. You still have time to turn yourself around, and you better do it quick or you will never make it. All I read is BAD now about you.

  • Older Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 7:28 AM

    29. Talita,I can't imagine why someone as bright, beautiful, and full of promise as you would waste so much of your time and energy on petty ugliness. Take compliments for what they are. Take people as they are. Do your best and behave at all times as you would have others behave. That is how to get ahead. You've got an advantage already, being gorgeous, slim, and smart. Why not be a nice person, too? Your character is the only part of you that will last a lifetime and, really, it's the only thing that truly matters. It might not make for "great TV," but it WILL make for a better life.

  • spinkygirl Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 7:45 AM

    30. Talita * you need two things child:1. a set of implants for your chest2. a conscienceOh * you work in the FASHION industry???...nevermind

  • Megan Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 7:56 AM

    31. why are you and ashley so mean to Sam? I think that Sam should get the internship because she is nicer than you and ashley combined then multiplyed by ten!! you are a selfish ****** ***

  • Andrea Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 8:06 AM

    32. Talita- wow where does one start. This episode was horrible. I don't know any of you personally so I am only commenting on what was aired. Amazing how the show starts with you ignoring Samantha and then quickly going up to her to brag about your assignment. If you do not like someone because they have "lost your respect" then don't communicate with them at all. You rubbing that in her face to try and make her jealous or to feel bad was really low and only confirms that YOU have been jealous of HER and not the other way around. The show aired Ashley bringing up the comments about your text message and saying SHE was jealous lol, hilarious that she told you what Samantha said Ashley making comments about you being more real than Samantha is a joke. Ashley at one point was talking trash about you as well.

  • linda Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 8:11 AM

    33. You call what you did in this episode "growing"? Wow, you have so much to learn. If you really are on such a higher level than Sam, why do you feel that's justification to treat her like dirt?! Imagine if the bosses at Marie Claire refused to even address you because you're not "at their level." And trust me, you're not! You are several years out of fashion school and still interning! What "level" do you think you are on, anyway?! If you really were so much more skilled than Sam AND if you had any decency, humanity or leadership skills at all, you would try to help her out, work together, give her some tips and pointers, but ultimately if you go through your career so focused on what others have and what others do, you are going to be even more miserable than you are now. You will need more than a mouth full of collagen to fill the void inside you! This is an incredible opportunity for anyone and if you had some humility you could put cattiness aside and make a lifelong friendship.

  • kvlm Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 8:32 AM

    34. What I really find funny about last night's show is that the two people who think they have the best style have the least. And what complete and total ******** I think it's funny, too, that the act of treating someone with such open disdain is seen as growing. Grow up is more like it. I really hoped this shoe would have some serious candidates for this position but honestly, if it were up to me, Sam is the one I'd hire because she has put up with the most **** since being there and having that tough skin is necessary for success in the fashion business. A procrastinator an *** kisser would be the first I'd mark off my list.

  • Pat Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 8:40 AM

    35. Talita, you did a great job playing the snotty, bitchy little girl. Good ol' "reality" tv!! It's so amusing.I was concerned at first that you and Ashley were as mean and short-sighted as you seemed, then I realized it was all exagerrated for the show. Whew! what a relief! I'd really hate to think you girls are blowing such a fabulous opportunity by puting such negative behavior on video tape for everyone to see.

  • Nicole Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 8:45 AM

    36. First off, you have a horrific superiority complex. Where do you get off thinking you are so wonderful and above Samantha's level? You need to stop worrying about her and being mean and worry about yourself. When Samantha was given the "menial" task of unpacking those boxes, she didn't complain. You and Ashley would have been b*tching like crazy about it. The immature person here isn't Samantha, it's you. You could learn a few things from Samantha's positive attitude. It will get your further than what you are doing now. You may not like her, but there is such a thing as being cordial and polite anyway. It's called common courtesy, and everyone deserves it, even if you don't perceive them to be at your "level."

  • Liz Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 8:56 AM

    37. You are the most shallow person I've ever seen. I hope this is highly edited and you actually do have a conscience. But guess what? You're in the perfect career for your type. One question: were you raised by wolves? I can't believe any parents could consciously raise someone as mean and self-absorbed as you. (Oh wait, maybe Ashley.)

  • Renate K. Gorenflo Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 10:51 AM

    38. Talita,You will never get anywher in life because you are lazy. That is a given and it is very easy to see through your shallow facade. You and Ashley think you are still in high school. It is obvious because of your bad behaivior. But guess what? It sells!You are also the second ugliest person on the show next to Ashley.

  • DJ Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 10:53 AM

    39. Talita, I think it is hilarious that you act so superior to Sam, yet you can't even spell. The episode where this issue was brought to light was an eye opener for me because you were mildly reprimanded and you acted like it was the end of the world. Obviously you've never worked in the "real world"! I'm sure some of the other commentors will agree as this goes on in EVERY workplace. I would LUV to be reprimanded like that compared to the veral "lashings" that can happen when I make a mistake! So I would seriously consider my own shortcomings, if I were you, the next time you get the urge to belittle Sam or anyone else. Just because you are a few years older, honey does not make you any better!

  • Jane Sarason Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 11:23 AM

    40. Talita,You can't write. You are rude. You are tasteless. The close up of you laughing two episodes ago was one of the scariest things I've ever seen. You laugh like a robot. Your voice has no inflection. You express no real warmth or kindness towards anyone you encounter. The work you've turned in to date is ***** Remind me again why it is you think you're so much better than Sam. You're a ridiculous, creepy, hologram of a woman. Get a soul. Get over yourself.Jane S.

  • Cj Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 11:32 AM

    41. Talita, You are incredible ignorant of your actions and what you say. You of all people especially being the older and more "experienced" person should show more respect for your fellow interns. To see you jealous of Sam is great and liberating. It really shows how shallow you are and the potential Sam has to outgrow you at this internship. Grow up and act professional. It's what your works asks of you and not to be 'highschool' about people and how to treat them. peace

  • Maria Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 11:53 AM

    42. Talita or whatever you'r name is: You are so annoying............you may want to see a doctor because your nasal voice is so irritating that I think they need to remove your tonsils, your adenoids and maybe a portion of your brain. Jesus girl, are you for real?

  • Jane Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 12:30 PM

    43. Dear Talita * I find it interesting that you are unable to "talk on your level" with Samantha when everyone else at MC is apparently able to bring themselves down to your level. Shame on Jeremy for letting you borrow a dress! Your fashion sense makes ME want to "vomit." I have enoyed your meanness and immaturity, and hopefully it is an act * can't imagine you as a real employee.

  • Heather Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 12:31 PM

    44. I really didn't know where to begin, but I tend to agree with most all of the comments, except for the few that want you to win. Please continue to try to convince us that you feel the way you are behaving is appropraite-maybe in doing so you will also convince yourself. Each of you have collectively had some great assignments and "grunt work". Each of you have had kudos and disappointments. As each episode aires, you sound jealous, pathetic and childish, while Samantha looks better and better. I think you need a little dose of humilty, Talita, as does Ashley.

  • Maria Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 1:07 PM

    45. Do these girls get paid either for the internship or the show?

  • Catrherine Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 3:00 PM

    46. Both Talita and Ashley are bitter people who worry too much about Samantha when they should be expending that energy towards pleasing the editors at MC. I heard that Samantha left to finish school which is a shame but she is too sweet for the Big Apple.

  • your a cold person Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 3:17 PM

    47. Wow, that is pretty much all I can say! I have been watching this show since the first episode aired and I have never seen someone as MEAN as you ** I mean people are cruel out there don't get me wrong, and you SURE are one of them. I am even older than you and you are pathetic for your age. I work with a girl that is very similiar to you!! Thank goodness I was offered a better job and will be leaving her sad miserable life she has at work 5 feet from me. You have no right saying the things you are saying about how someone doesn't deserve to be there, or they aren't at the "LEVEL" you are at.. SERIOUSLY?! GROW UP! You are there for yourself and working on being a good worker/intern for yourself.. stop harping on other people. I would have moved out and probably left the show because I couldn't take you anymore! Esp. since I am like Sam and have a boyfriend and if she wanted to leave work early and GOT PERMISSION(not any of your concern) that is HER RIGHT and non of your business!

  • Morning Glory Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 3:37 PM

    48. What truth are you talking about? LOL. You are so full of yourself. In real life and real jobs people get to take time off to do personal stuff. GET OVER IT! For real. Leave the judgements to Sams employers. They obviously hired her for a reason! I dont know why you think you are so above her level. Joanne disliked all of your boards not just hers. Get over yourself. Sam IS nice. You are not. Fake pple always think other people are fake. HA! Ashley is constantly late and messes up tasks. So is you and Ashley are on the same level must be the bottom one

  • patty Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 3:48 PM

    49. Wow! Talita you are such a little jerk. I mean who sits there and huff and puffs when someone is trying to talk to you. You remind me of the little four year olds I teach. No, wait they can actually have a conversation and they can spell too!

  • Melinda Mon, Mar 30, 2009, 4:00 PM

    50. You are a very ugly person inside and out!! Your behavior is crazy and very rude! You are not in high school anymore!!! You and Ashley need to grow up!! I THINK YOU AND ASHLEY ARE BOTH JERKS!!

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